He also warns against “self service” of your partner. Err, that means you shouldn’t use fingers to stimulate yourself to orgasm. “It is self-service done on you by your partner rather than yourself,” he said.
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Missionary as the Only Holy PositionThe punishment for married couples who practice mouth action (We are not sure if this includes kissing) is that they will be put to death.
Missionaries of old who taught their converts about true holiness would teach them that in the marriage bed, face to face with the husband on top is the only position that God has sanctioned. That is a landmarker or boundary stone that was laid by people before this evil generation was born that you and I who live today are a part of. That was a boundary stone. We have moved that stone, so we could try new things to fulfill our lusts.
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“It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God.” (1 Thes 4:3-5, NIV).
“Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.” (1 Tim 2:22, KJV)
About simulating your partner with fingers, he said;
Touching your wife lovingly is not a sin, but it becomes a sin when she feels like you are self-servicing her. Our hands are not meant for such an act. If your wife touches you such that you release without penetration, that is a great sin, so we need to be careful…I want to be very clear that when I refer to ‘touching your wife lovingly,’ it is not self-servicing her for arousal. I do not say a man should do that. The Lord told me He detests all forms of self-service.We’d really like to hear what you’ve got to say about this – let’s have it on the comments section.
