Sometimes, men try to always pass this message of them being in control at all times to ladies but male ego hide so many things we do that only if the ladies knew…they would chuckle within them.
Picture a lady going on a date
probably for the first time with a man that she truly likes; deep within there
are so many unsolved puzzles that goes through her mind. Funny enough, the lady
isn’t the only one that’s facing this reality check (unknown to her).
1. PONDER ON WHAT TO WEAR
If you think only ladies ponder on
what to wear before a date then you might be mistaken; every man wants the lady
he likes to find him attractive as well, so he ponders on what to wear for
quite a while before going for his best option.
2. STARE AT THE MIRROR
Ladies, if you think the mirror is
meant for just you then you might actually be deluded—you need to see the man
going on a date with a lady he likes, he stares at himself in a mirror just to
be sure he’s looking perfect. It’s funny that men castigate women for time
spent in front of a mirror, but we also do this too on special occasions.
3. WONDER IF SHE WOULD FIND HIM ATTRACTIVE
Ladies aren’t the only one caught up
on whether the man would find them attractive; I’m not even sure who do this
more because men are also caught up in this scenario. Would she like me? Would
she see me as the perfect gentleman? Would she think I’m unattractive?
Questions like these also run through a man’s mind.
4. THE RIGHT LINES TO SAY
This is where the man’s job becomes
even more difficult; ladies expect the man to have the right words to say and
the right conversations to start up; this would even add more tension to the
way the man feels. So before he goes to meet her, his mind is already bundled
with what do I say? How do I make her smile? What are the best things to
discuss and the best lines to use? How can I tease her? Etc…...
5. PRACTICE THINGS
When he knows it’s a lady he
actually likes, consciously or unconsciously a man sees himself practicing so
many weird things like even how to give a cute smile, how to walk confidently
and even the right way to talk.
Culled from GhanaVibes