You don't PREPARE for MARRIAGE in MARRIAGE

 
For many husbands, they feel wives can be downright confusing.
One night, a husband looks at his wife with puppy dog eyes and suggests romance. she replies in frustration, “Not tonight. Is sex all you men think about?” A few nights later in that very same bed, she might say, “You just watch TV and go to bed. Don’t u find me attractive anymore?”

Another husband hears his wife complaining about her need to exercise. He buys her a gym membership. And that’s when the fight begins!

There are countless times in marriage when a husband and wife get their wires crossed.

Efforts to make your wife happy may seem to backfire more often than not.

MANY a TIME your LADY actually TELLS U what she WANTS, either with INDIRECT WORDS or SIGN LANGUAGE (every lady has her peculiar sign language, u got to pay attention and Learn hers).

BELIEVE me she wants the Romance, affection and Love but she wants it wholeheartedly and wants u to do it right.

MAKE TIME a DAILY HABIT! Don't become too busy that u cant spend at least 15 minutes a day talking with your Spouse.

If possible, use dinnertime as a place for conversation. If dinner doesn’t work, maybe it’s a five minute phone call at lunch and 10 minutes sitting on the sofa in the evening.

Act interested in what your wife has to say. Notice I wrote “act.” I know the things
we women SOMETIMES talk about can be boring, long-winded, dramatic or illogical (or all of the above).....WOMEN love to TALK and CHAT! But if u simply act as if u care about what we’re saying, it means the world to us.

If its too much Just picture yourself in a board room listening to a boring presentation by your boss. You would still act interested out of respect for your boss. Act interested in your wife’s comments, not always because the conversation is riveting, but because u love your wife.

Hug, cuddle, and kiss her often. Remember the affectionate way u would hold her hand, and tell her how much u Love her while u were engaged! Do that again and again.

Remind yourself to romance and court her physically with a steady flow of affection. But remember, the goal of all your hugging and cuddling isn’t to have sex that night but to MAINTAIN AFFECTIONS.

WRITE HER A LOVE NOTE. It doesn’t have to be pure poetry to make her heart flatter.
Write down the things u appreciate about her. Why are u glad u married her? Did
she do something last week that u really liked? How is she doing a good job as a
mother?

Take her On the date, hold her hand, open the door for her, and brag about her.

Tell her she looks beautiful. What’s a common question that little girls ask? Do I look
beautiful daddy? It’s a question that grown women still wonder about. Women tend to
be hard on themselves regarding their looks.

They are afraid they don’t measure up in your sight. But if u look into your wife’s eyes and tell her she is beautiful, u will make her day!

Help with the household duties. pick up around the house, help in the kitchen, and your wife will be incredibly thankful. REMEMBER U are to SERVE HER as SHE'S to SERVE U.

LASTLY make your WIFE, a whole part of your LIFE, your business, Job, everything u do, make her know how u get things done at work, make her a part of your Life. She would be so glad and it makes her feel IMPORTANT.

Sometimes u both can write emails together, discuss Job contracts, ask for her opinions. THAT'S WHY U JUST GOT TO MARRY RIGHT GENT! So if she doesn't know how to give u Business ideas, she knows how to add wisdom and directions from the SPIRIT by through God's WORD.....

*Winks* keep Loving!