I am 29 years old and I got married to the love of my life who is 3 years younger than I am. We have a 2 year old cute son and my wife is pregnant with the second.
My problem is that I have a mighty sex urge and libido but my wife is my complete opposite in bed. We dated for 4 years before we married and she became pregnant immediately I disvirgined her.
Throughout our courtship, we never had sex but we use to enjoy hours of kissing and romance. I never thought sex was going to be an issue in our relationship till we married and she gave birth.
Each time we make love she either complains that my penis is too big and painful or that I take time to cum. I have tried to increase her interest in sex through every means I know of, I use porn to make her horny but whenever we eventually have sex I feel depressed and sad because it won't be any fun.
Sometimes in the process of romance, she'll cum over and over again then she'll just sleep off leaving me awake all night. I have discussed the issue with her time without number but she keeps promising to get better.
I'm afraid that this is pushing me into cheating which I swore to myself never to do. I need your matured advice please before I go crazy.
What should I do?
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2 comments:
Abeg go crazy, no body is holding you. My man What you need to do is to allow the woman to get you on first before you wet her so that you will be ahead of her and both of you will likely to come together. In the act, monitor her reaction to know when to reduce sensation until you are getting closer to your climax. Don't touch her sensitive spots until you are closer to your climax too. Work on your body to suit her time while you gradually work on her to improve. Learn the act of praises to give her confidence, it is very important. Excessive complains creates tension in her and under tension, she is billed to climax early. Don't go outside, work on her over a time because it is not automatic and her body will gradually adapts until you people find a balance!!! ------Nkem
Good one, tnx for the advice
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