Ladies, please stop putting money ahead of everything. Here’s the story as shared by Ada Okeke: My cousin (male) came home last Christmas looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her. At last he liked her, collected her phone number from me. But here is the deal between me and him, he made it clear to me never to disclose what he does for a living to her now, but rather I should tell her he is a security man living in Mushin. (note: he is a rich business man but he is afraid to disclose his identity now, because according to him, he is looking for a lady that will love him for whom he is and not for what he is). They met, he told her the same thing. After everything she came to me to know whether it’s true, I told her yes but that she should give him a chance, and try to know him very well. My girlfriend told me she is not interested, that she is not ready for marriage yet… I tried all my best to convince her but to no avail, I let go! Later he found another lady, paid her bride price last February, they are planning for their traditional marriage soon. Now, I don’t know how my girlfriend ran into him and discovered he is a rich business guy. She called me and gave me the insult of my life. Her reason is that I shouldn’t have lied to her in the first place, knowing fully well we are friends… that a friend is not supposed to lie to a friend. Her sisters called me and told me the same thing. But when I tried to explain things, they hung the phone on me. I am planning to go over to their place today to explain things to her sisters and apologise too, but my own sisters are still with the opinion that I did nothing wrong…. What do you think? Did I do the right or the wrong thing? -
Ladies, please stop putting money ahead of everything. Here’s the story as shared by Ada Okeke:
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her. At last he liked her, collected her phone number from me.
I tried all my best to convince her but to no avail, I let go! Later he found another lady, paid her bride price last February, they are planning for their traditional marriage soon.
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her. At last he liked her, collected her phone number from me.
But here is the deal between me and him, he made it clear to me
never to disclose what he does for a living to her now, but rather I
should tell her he is a security man living in Mushin. (note: he
is a rich business man but he is afraid to disclose his identity now,
because according to him, he is looking for a lady that will love him
for whom he is and not for what he is).
They met, he told her the same thing. After everything she came to
me to know whether it’s true, I told her yes but that she should give
him a chance, and try to know him very well.
My girlfriend told me she is not interested, that she is not ready for marriage yet…
I tried all my best to convince her but to no avail, I let go! Later he found another lady, paid her bride price last February, they are planning for their traditional marriage soon.
Now, I don’t know how my girlfriend ran into him and discovered he
is a rich business guy. She called me and gave me the insult of my life.
Her reason is that I shouldn’t have lied to her in the first place,
knowing fully well we are friends… that a friend is not supposed to lie
to a friend. Her sisters called me and told me the same thing. But when I
tried to explain things, they hung the phone on me.
I am planning to go over to their place today to explain things to
her sisters and apologise too, but my own sisters are still with the
opinion that I did nothing wrong….
- See more at:
http://citypeoplenews.com/big-girl-rejects-a-man-bcos-he-is-poor-now-she-wants-him-after-knowing-hes-rich/#sthash.tDjSzi9s.dpuf
What do you think? Did I do the right or the wrong thing?
Ladies, please stop putting money ahead of everything. Here’s the story as shared by Ada Okeke:
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her. At last he liked her, collected her phone number from me.
I tried all my best to convince her but to no avail, I let go! Later he found another lady, paid her bride price last February, they are planning for their traditional marriage soon.
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her. At last he liked her, collected her phone number from me.
But here is the deal between me and him, he made it clear to me
never to disclose what he does for a living to her now, but rather I
should tell her he is a security man living in Mushin. (note: he
is a rich business man but he is afraid to disclose his identity now,
because according to him, he is looking for a lady that will love him
for whom he is and not for what he is).
They met, he told her the same thing. After everything she came to
me to know whether it’s true, I told her yes but that she should give
him a chance, and try to know him very well.
My girlfriend told me she is not interested, that she is not ready for marriage yet…
I tried all my best to convince her but to no avail, I let go! Later he found another lady, paid her bride price last February, they are planning for their traditional marriage soon.
Now, I don’t know how my girlfriend ran into him and discovered he
is a rich business guy. She called me and gave me the insult of my life.
Her reason is that I shouldn’t have lied to her in the first place,
knowing fully well we are friends… that a friend is not supposed to lie
to a friend. Her sisters called me and told me the same thing. But when I
tried to explain things, they hung the phone on me.
I am planning to go over to their place today to explain things to
her sisters and apologise too, but my own sisters are still with the
opinion that I did nothing wrong….
- See more at:
http://citypeoplenews.com/big-girl-rejects-a-man-bcos-he-is-poor-now-she-wants-him-after-knowing-hes-rich/#sthash.tDjSzi9s.dpuf
What do you think? Did I do the right or the wrong thing?
2 comments:
Hmmmm...this is a familiar line of story. That is why "men are from Mars and women from Venus"!
Well, the lady in question lacked the acute intuitive power God blessed women with, otherwise she would have seen beyond her nose: if she was a true friend she would have known from her friend (chats, photo album, and even appearance).
By the way how did she get to know Mushin, since they were both in the village? Chidinma Prosperity Opara
I know of a story told by an Assemblies of God Pastor In Rumuokwuta Port Harcourt of a sister who turned down a guy simply bcs they are not in the same class though in the same AG but 3 years latter, the guy was giving out cars to members of the Church and the lady wanted him badly but it was late as the guy latter married the girls friend. The guy became a major supplier to Eagles Cement and Dangote and was also was heavily into building materials. Ladies, vision rule the world not money. Serve her right.
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