Things Ladies Do That Push Men Away

As a lady hoping to be married some day, there are certain things that push that great guy away from you and sometimes these turn-offs go both ways. It is hard to keep a man because of some these few things we do. Read details below:

Drama: This is definitely one of the top things that push men away. Women tend to be involved in more drama than men. It’s true that your boyfriend will be there to listen to you when you’re having issues, but being catty won’t highlight your best qualities. And being overly dramatic about some petty issue, such as why he didn’t call you first, will make him question the relationship. If you are a responsible lady or want to be one, try not to make a huge deal of something that can be easily fixed.

Possessiveness: Do you constantly check up on your boyfriend? If so, you might want to back off a little bit. When guys receive too many "Where are you?" texts, they tend to get annoyed. They don’t want to be in a relationship with their mom. You might think this is just you caring about him, but to him, it will feel like you don’t trust him, or worse, like you are trying to control him.

Playing dumb: Unfortunately, we ladies have all probably done this at some time or other. Truth is that playing dumb will lead you down the wrong path. He might eventually feel like you’re taking advantage of him or that you just aren’t capable of taking care of yourself, let alone you and the kid or kids when they start coming. Good guys believe a smart girl is much more worth keeping at home.

Clingy: A guy has got to have his own space! How much space a guy needs will vary. Some guys think that going out more then twice a month together is clingy, while others think that you never leaving his side is clingy. As a lady, make sure to observe your own man to figure out where he lies on the spectrum! When you give him what he wants, he will really appreciate your understanding and thoughtfulness – and he will try to make the time you do spend together that much more worthwhile.

Living in the past: It’s okay to share your past once you get comfortable with your new guy. Just don’t dwell on it. Not yours, not his, not "ours." Don’t compare him to a fling that you had before, a sugar daddy or ex-boyfriend. And don't compare yourself to anyone in his past – and definitely don’t dwell on a past disagreement that you two had. If you want him in your future, plan today with him.

Dishonesty: We hate being lied to. So why do we do it to a man we love? It doesn’t protect a relationship; in fact, it might destroy it. Communication is key in a relationship, so if you say things that you don’t mean, what’s the point? Try to express yourself and allow your man point out things that he doesn’t understand. Always make an attempt to talk things out. Believe me, it works wonders!

Remember that time you told him you loved that his shirt, even though really, you can't stand it? Well, what are you going to do if he starts wearing it all the time to please you? That is it, you have all the work to do if you want to enjoy your man and have him spend his money you wholeheartedly.

Power struggle: I always cringe when I hear people joking about who wears the pants in a relationship. There’s really no need to do that. Learn to be humble and work well with your man. Your friends are loyal to their own men at home, no matter what they tell you. So don’t be obsessive over who has more power. Love is what you should ask for from your man, not his authority. You can!

Bruce Jenner Receives Praise and Support from Stars Everywhere: Read Their Messages!

The much-hyped Bruce Jenner interview with Diane Sawyer has come and gone. But its impact is likely to be felt for years, if not generations, to come.

The reality star and former Olympic Gold Medalist sat in front of millions of viewers on Friday night and shed some important light on living life as a transgender individual, saying in no uncertain terms:
"For all intents and purposes, I am a woman."

With those words, the Bruce Jenner sex change went from being a punchline to a source of inspiration.

Jenner also opened up how Kim Kardashian was the first family member to know of his female soul, going on to say the following:

• He's not gay. He's never slept with a man.
• He "downplayed" his cross-dressing while married to Kris Jenner, but she knew about it and mostly ignored it.
• He's a "conservative" Republican.
• He wants to be a transgender role model: "I had this feeling, kind of a revelation, that maybe this is my cause in life. This is why God put me on this earth ... to deal with this issue.'
• After being caught last year getting a tracheal shave, he contemplated suicide. Fortunately, he later thought: I can't do something like that. I want to know how this story ends.
• He's taking hormones and he plans on undergoing some other physical changes: "Those are all things that are out there in the future for me to explore. I would do it so quietly, no one in the world would ever know."

In response to these revelations, Twitter blew up last weekend, mostly with heaps of praise from celebrities who admire Jenner's courage to talk about this important cause.

Check through their words of encouragement and add your own in the Comments section below.

 

1. Kim Kardashian:

Love is the courage to live the truest, best version of yourself. Bruce is love. I love you Bruce. #‎ProudDaughter.

 

2. Rob Kardashian: 

You have always been a role model to me and now more than ever, I look up to you. LOVE YOU.

 

3. Kendall Jenner

So very proud of you, my hero.

 

4. Khloe Kardashian

Just finished watching #BruceJennerInterview with the family. Bruzer, I’m sooo proud of you! Dads really are heroes.

Xenophobia: South African Govt. Blasts Nigerian Govt. Over Recall Of Her Ambassadors

 
Read the statement released by SA government below;

The South African Government takes note that the outgoing Government of the Federal Republic of Nigeria has recalled its Acting High Commissioner to South Africa. A government resorts to such an extraordinary diplomatic step to express outrage at actions or Behavior of another government.

We are not sure which actions or behavior of the South African Government the Nigerian Government is protesting. It is only Nigeria that has taken this unfortunate and regrettable step. If this action is based on the incidents of attacks on foreign nationals in some parts of our country, it would be curious for a sisterly country to want to exploit such a painful episode for whatever agenda.

Deputy President Cyril Ramaphosa has just returned from Indonesia to attend the Africa-Asia Summit and the 60th Anniversary of the historic Bandung Conference. At no stage did the Nigerian delegation present at that gathering, expressed its intention to formally raise the issue with the South African side.
South Africa remains committed to a strong bond of friendship and bilateral relations with Nigeria. It is for this reason that when 84 of our citizens perished on Nigerian soil, we did not blame the Nigerian Government for the deaths and more than nine (9) months delay in the repatriation of the bodies of our fallen compatriots, or for the fact that when these bodies eventually returned, they were in a state that they could not be touched or viewed as required by our burial practice.
We will raise our concerns through diplomatic channels with the new administration that will assume office in Nigeria next month.

The South African Government, as well as all political parties, religious organisations, non-governmental organisations, business, sports fraternities, including artists, musicians and ordinary people of South Africa, have been decisive and unequivocal in condemning and rejecting the attacks on foreign nationals.

Through our interventions, relative calm and order has been restored. We are encouraged by the solidarity our country continues to receive from other African countries and the international community. We shall also continue to support and not blame the Nigerian Government as it battles to deal with Boko Haram that continues to kill many innocent civilians. We hope that the more than 200 girls kidnapped by Boko Haram will someday be reunited with their families.

Enquiries: Mr Clayson Monyela, Spokesperson for DIRCO, 082 884 5974
ISSUED BY THE DEPARTMENT OF INTERNATIONAL RELATIONS AND COOPERATION
OR Tambo Building
460 Soutpansberg Road
Rietondale, Pretoria

Tyga Tattoos Kylie Jenner's Name on His Arm!!!

Even though they've made little to no effort to conceal their relationship, we still haven't received any official confirmation that Kylie and Tyga are dating.

There's good reason for this, as Tyga is 25 and Kylie is 17, which means if the rapper confessed to a sexual relationship with his "best friend," he might find himself doing time in one of the few places where his neck tattoos wouldn't seem quite so ridiculous.

Hey, speaking of tattoos...it looks as though Tyga may have let the cat out of the bag with his latest ink:

The photo on the left shows T-Raw (apparently hanging with some girl who's about to audition for a stage production of Pocahontas) sporting an inner-arm tat that clearly reads "Kylie."

Most fans dismissed the ink as fake (because how could a grown man be so stupid as to tattoo a teenage girl's name on his arm?), but the photo on the right shows Tyga in different clothes, with the Kylie tattoo still visible on his right arm.

Given the recent baby mama drama that's affected their relationship, we wouldn't be surprised if Tyga went through with the tat as a sort of grand gesture to prove his commitment to Kylie.

On Thursday, Tyga's ex, Blac Chyna trolled Kylie on Instagram by mocking her giant lips in a ridiculous selfie.

The next day, Blac posted a text conversation in which Tyga seemed to be begging her to take him back.

That's a double-whammy that would leave any guy scrambling to get out of the doghouse - and who knows? - maybe all the jewelry stores were closed by the time the sh-t hit the fan.

We hope for Tyga's sake that the ink is temporary, but even if it is the real deal, it's still not as dumb as the Kylie Lip challenge.

Adorable!! Actress Mercy Johnson Shares Photos of Her Son, Henry - See Photos

Mercy Johnson and her husband took their baby boy, Henry Okojie to church yesterday, 26th of April 2015 for his dedication.

They later shared these adorable photos of him.

 See the pictures below.......

What Bruce Jenner's Kids Will Call Him/Her After the Sex Change Revealed: Must Read

Tonight at 9 pm EST, the long-awaited Bruce Jenner - Diane Sawyer Interview will air on ABC, and over the course of the two-hour special, Jenner is expected to offer details of the sex change that's been the subject of tabloid headlines for over a year.

There have been rumors about Bruce changing his/her name or asking his kids to call him/her mom, but according to a new report from Radar Online, some of the most important aspects of Jenner's identity will remain the same despite his altered appearance.

“Brandon will continue to call Bruce ‘Dad,’ and Brody will still refer to him either by his first name, or his nickname, Bruiser,” one insider says. “Bruce will reveal during the interview that he will always be his kids’ ‘Dad,’ even though he will now be living his life as a woman.

“For Bruce, it’s about what the kids are comfortable with. None of the kids will be calling him ‘Mom.’ This is truly uncharted territory for the family, and it’s about respecting each other during the process."

Several tabloids have claimed that Bruce will re-introduce himself as a woman during tonight's interview.
Generally, such a coming-out would include the unveiling of a new name, but it sounds like that may not be the case with Bruce.

 Instead, he'll be a woman with a penchant for full-lenght dresses who goes by "Bruiser." We love it.

South African Minister Denied Visa to Israel

Blade Nzimande (left) is South Africa's Higher Education Minister [EPA]

The government of South Africa has expressed outrage after Israel's decision to deny a visa to Higher Education Minister Blade Nzimande.

Clayson Monyela, Deputy Director General of Department of International Relations and Cooperation, told Al Jazeera on Thursday the Israeli government needed to offer a reason for the snubbing.

"We are taking it up through the proper channels.
"We need to receive a proper explanation for the denial of a visa to a sitting cabinet minister," Monyela said.

The minister was scheduled to travel to the occupied Palestinian territories from April 25-29. He was scheduled to secure further collaboration with the University of Johannesburg and institutions in Palestine.

Nzimande's spokesperson told local media that the denial of the visa had caused a serious diplomatic problem.

Naeem Jeenah, Director of Afro-Middle East Centre, based in Johannesburg, described the snubbing as "surprising" considering the two countries' growing trade relations.

Jeenah said the Palestinian solidarity movement in South Africa "would be thrilled" with Israel's decision "because South Africa now has to respond to this matter".

Arthur Lenk, the Israeli ambassador in Pretoria, told Al Jazeera that South African officials routinely visit the West Bank through Israel.

Lenk would not be drawn into discussing why specifically Nzimande's visa application was denied, though he described the minister as being "very vocal on a range of issues connected to Israel, South Africa and my region".

The ambassador said the decision to deny the visa was made in Israel.

"The decision came from Jerusalem," Lenk said.

But Jeenah said that anything the Israelis say on the matter "could really only make the situation worse".

The Palestinian embassy in South Africa described the decision as "racist".

"We take note by this aggressive action that Israel is trying to implement the same rule as in the previous apartheid regime of South Africa," the embassy said in a statement.

The Palestinian lobby group Boycott Divestment and Sanctions (BDS-South Africa) released a statement saying it's "more confident than ever that its time to expel the Israeli Ambassador from South Africa".

"Israel cannot want to tell us who our friends should be, where we should travel and who we can speak with." BDS said.

Nzimande has been a vocal critic of Israel. His spokesperson said on Thursday the minister would call on all higher education institutions to cut ties with their counterparts in Israel.

"We must just boycott Israel," Nkwanyana reportedly said.

South Africa currently has full diplomatic relations with Israel and recognizes Israel within the borders demarcated by the United Nations (UN) in 1948.

In 2012, Deputy Minister of International Relations and Co-operation, Ebrahim Ebrahim discouraged South Africans from visiting Israel.

"We do not prevent them. We say we discourage them."

Source: Al Jazeera

Tyga Begs Blac Chyna to Take Him Back in Text Conversation!!!! Read

Yesterday, Blac Chyna mocked theKylie Jenner lip challenge with a ridiculous selfie intended as a shot at her 17-year-old romantic rival.


Today, Ms. Chyna upped her game by instagramming a conversation between herself and her baby daddy, Tyga, in which the rapper (who happens to be Kylie's boyfriend) begs her to take him back:
 
"I want to be with you. I want to be positive," Tyga apparently texted to Blac. "I want to be a family again. I want to start this friendship. Relationship."

Of course, Tyga and Kylie have yet to confirm their relationship but the whole world knows they're committed to one another, and Blac knew exactly what she was doing when she posted this convo.

The Blac Chyna-Kylie feud dates back to when "Kylie and Tyga" became a thing last year, but it looks like Chyna may have just put an end to the beef by going nuclear on Tyga and Kylie's romance.

Kylie's fans have already rushed to her defense claiming that the screen shot could be from any time.

While it's true that the timestamp on the texts reads only "yesterday," the photo of her work schedule that Blac texted to Tyga appears to be from April of 2015.

Tyga has yet to directly respond to the accusation that he's attempting to reconcile with Blac, but he recently tweeted, "Give it up. Get over it. Live your life."

Sounds like Tyga may soon be living his life as a single dude.

Blac Chyna Mocks Kylie Jenner Lip Controversy: See the Photo!

As previously reported, people around the Internet have started a trend in which they stick their mouths inside small glasses in order to replicate the giant, puffed-out lips found so often these days on Kylie Jenner.

This ridiculous Internet challenge has caused some controversy, it's also given Blac Chyna another way to make fun of her rival.


The model (also known as the Baby Mama of Kylie's Boyfriend, Tyga) posted a photo online yesterday of herself donning a Jenner-like wig and donning even more Jenner-like lips.

Blac Chyna didn't include a caption with the image because... really. What is there to say? It's pretty clear the message being sent here and to whom it is directed.

In a second posting, Blac Chyna wrote that the fake lips are called “Wack-O-Wax" and she's actually now selling them at $50 a pop.

This isn't the first time Blac Chyna has thrown shade at Kylie Jenner.

Late last month, she shared a picture of a watch Tyga gave her at some point in their romantic past. But Kylie did not back down.

She responded by sharing her own photo of a similar-looking wrist accessory and simply writing as a caption: "Currently."

This is a fun rivalry and all, but we have to ask: All this over Tyga?

50 Cent to Instagram Follower: Angry Black B-tch, Do You Want to Have S3x With My Son?

It's been quite a day on 50 Cent's Instagram account.

First, the rapper ended his feud with Floyd Matweather by posting a photo of the two of them together and referring to Mayweather as his "brother."

Just a few hours later, Fiddy showed the world that just because he's buried the hatchet with the Money Man, that doesn't mean he's not still full of seething, misdirected rage.

It all started when Mr. Cent posted the below photo of his 3-year-old son with a caption reading, "My little guy is getting big so fast. I feel like I'm gonna blink and he's gonna pull off in one of my cars."
 
One commenter asked about the whereabouts of 50's "first born" (17-year-old Marquise Jackson), and the dude just lost it on her:

"Why only angry black b-tches got something to say about my other son he grown," 50 fired back. "What do you want to give him some p-ssy? Google him."

After 50 Cent skipped his son's high school graduation last May, the fact that he had been largely from his Marquise's life for several years became public knowledge.

Clearly, it's still a sore subject, but that hardly justifies the 39-year-old's outraged rant over a simple question.

In the hours since, the comment thread on the above photo has become a hotbed of debate, with some fans defending 50 and others expressing their belief that he was way out of line.

Fortunately, the latter opinion seems to be in the majority.