Nigerian Comedian Alibaba Has This Message For Men: Why Marriages Survive

It's important you have something doing. You CAN NOT be waiting for something to do. DO ANYTHING. DONT WAIT FOR WHAT YOU WANT TO DO.

It has been proven time without number, that a woman respects a man who provides... more than she respects a man that CAN NOT PROVIDE.

There are huge differences between a man that CAN NOT PROVIDE/ A MAN THAT CAN PROVIDE/ and A MAN CAN PROVIDE BUT DOES NOT WANT TO PROVIDE. You may fall into any of these categories. But if it's the right one well done. If it's not, hey!!!! Brotherly, there is work to be done.

There are huge differences between a man that CAN NOT PROVIDE/ A MAN THAT CAN PROVIDE/ and A MAN CAN PROVIDE BUT DOES NOT WANT TO PROVIDE. You may fall into any of these categories. But if it's the right one well done. If it's not, hey!!!! Brotherly, there is work to be done.

Forget anything anybody tells you, 50% of why many marriages survive, besides the core ingredients of love, respect, understanding and s*x... Is PROVISION.

The struggle we get involved in everyday, is just so we can provide. Like my friend, Zakiloooo always says, NA OUR WIVES AND CHILDREN ALL THESE STRUGGLE DEY FOR. Because, he would explain further... We for just begin grooooove enter Ghana, Kenya, Jo'Burg, Uk, Dubai...

BOTTOMLINE, we must know that, if we make 25K, family must get 10K, 5K goes back into the business, savings go hold 5K and we will use the last 5k to hold our side for in case of incasity and other cases of should in case! Zakilo!!!!! God no dey sleep

So, my guys, no just SIDDON. Get up. Find something to do. At all at all NA him bad pass. One of my guys in Warri, was dropped by GTB in the last retrenchment when the new management took over, he said he waited for a bit (5months) when it looked like all those job offers were not coming like when he was employed, he had to do something... He started diesel supply.

Now, he says, the respect as the head of the house is beginning to come back. He also says, men who say, it does not matter if your wife is earning more than you do are being economical with the truth. Your ability to provide MATTERS A GREAT DEAL. DONT LISTEN TO SOME LAZY BUMCUM WHO SAY ITS NOTHING.

I agree totally.

So guys, lets get cracking. Even if it's a stop gap job. Just do it. Not for you. But for the family. I know some will say, it's easy for you to say. Dupe ti re!! No it's not. I started working in 1984 in SuperBru, loading Skol lager beer in trailers and lorries for N5 a day. I have worked in bakeries, taxi driver between Ring Road and Ogba Zoo in my dad's yellow Toyota Crown... I have been there, done that...

We need to groom the next generation of men who believe in dignity of labour, recognize that we are providers, head of the home, protector of the HONOUR of the family and THE MAN. So get to work.

Jonathan Nominates FRSC Leader For Minister Position

President Goodluck Jonathan today has nominated the Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC) Marshal Mr. Osita Chidoka and Mr. Suleiman Abubakar for a ministerial position.



The Chief Executive Officer and Corps Marshal, Osita Chidoka will represent Anambra state in the Federal Executive Council and will get the position pending screening and confirmation by the Senate.

Representing Kwara state, Mr. Suleiman Abubakar will also be required to get screened and confirmation by the senate.

Corps Marshal Osita Chidoka got his position after replacing the retired Major Gen (rtd) Halidu Hananiya.

He has earned an award of the FCT NYSC Honours award for wonderful Service, he also has received a
commendation letter from the Pope and also participated actively in the review of the Abuja Masterplan.

How Prophet, Pregnant Woman, Their Spouses Die Mysteriously In Lagos

On Saturday, June 28. Superior Evangelist Isaiah Adebola and his wife Deborah had already gone to bed after the day’s itinerary when suddenly they heard a knock at the door of their makeshift apartment located within their temporary church premises.

The cleric who was just recovering from an undisclosed ailment managed to open the door only to see his brother in-law, simply identified as Femi aka One-man Mopol. Femi, according to Evangelist Adebola’s son, who was a landlord in the neighbourhood.

The visibly agitated Femi was alleged to have beckoned on the cleric to come and pray for his pregnant wife who had some health complications after dinner.

In a jiffy, the cleric and his wife allegedly followed their visitor to his house and that was the last time they were seen alive.

A search for Superior Evangelist Adebola who was the Shepherd of Celestial Church of Christ, Gethsemane parish, Ofin in Igbogbo-Bayeku Local Council Development Area, was allegedly called by the Community Development Association, CDA in the neighbourhood. The Celestial church also raised a team of prayer warriors to unravel the mystery surrounding the disappearance of the cleric and his wife who was a commercial try-cyclist driver in the locality.

A member of the church told Vanguard Metro, VM that while the search parties and prayer sessions were still ongoing, neighbours started perceiving an offensive odour and swarm of flies around the One-man Mopol’s house.

A member of the CDA who pleaded anonymity told VM that One- man Mopol who worked with a private company in Lagos, had been absent from his place of work for days, prompting his colleagues to also raise a search party to locate his where-about. Their efforts proved futile until they visited the Ofin community. Calls put on his cell phone and that of his wife were not picked. The putrefying odour and swarm of flies within One-man Mopol’s residence, heightened their anxiety and suspicion. The CDA which was also involved in the search, brought in local security.

Eyewitnesses told VM that the said building was locked from within, thereby preventing people from gaining access into the house. After failed efforts to gain entry into the house, the local security organisation in Ikorodu which was invited by the CDA, climbed the roof of the building through a pidgeon hole.

To their greatest disbelief, they found the remains of the cleric and his wife as well as that of One-man Moplol and his wife. Two of the corpses were allegedly lying in the pool of their own blood while foam was oozing out from One-man Mopol’s mouth. His deceased wife was said be having a mould of food on her hand. This discovery led to the invitation of the men of the Nigeria Police.

VM learnt that it took a while before the corpses were removed from the scene of the crime and taken to the morgue for autopsy.

A resident who pleaded anonymity said One- man Mopol” had a queer character. He was alleged to have divorced his first wife who gave birth to five children for him. One-man Mopol was described as a bully.

When VM visited the Celestial Church in Ofin community last Sunday, a guest speaker was on hand to conduct the service with only three other worshipers. The five children of the deceased could not be located as relations had taken them away.

Two members of the church who simply gave their names as Alfa and Segun, said the cleric was murdered at a time they needed him most.

Some residents told VM the disaster was facilitated by the noise from generating sets.

‘’There is no way all of them would have died without the cry for help but the sound of the generators made it impossible for their distress calls to be heard,” one of them said. Meanwhile, a source in CCC, said plans are in top gear to retrieve the corpses from the Corona Court for interment.

Nicki Minaj Steps Out on a Bad Hair Day After Rumors of Beef With Iggy Azalea

 
Nicki Minaj was photographed on her way to rehearsal yesterday, and she was looking fairly disheveled and not like her usual fashionable self. The award-winning rapper's hair was a mess and she was wearing old sweats and sneakers and with very little to no make up on.

This is coming just days after Nicki Minaj gave an acceptance speech at the BET Awards on Sunday, that appeared to throw shade at other female rappers, especially Iggy Azalea, an upcoming rapper who was also nominated for the same award.

Nicki said in her speech that when "you hear Nicki Minaj spit, Nicki Minaj wrote it." Some say this is a pointed dig at Iggy Azalea who's been rumored to work with ghostwriters and who some say is on her way to taking Nicki Minaj's crown as the best female MC.

When their respective fans and media outlets reported on the shade, Nicki came out on Twitter to clear the air.

"The media puts words in my mouth all the time and this is no different. I will always take a stance on women writing b/c I believe in us! ...

I've congratulated Iggy on the success of 'Fancy,' publicly. She should be very proud of that. All the women nominated should b proud. ...

That will never change my desire to motivate women to write. Our voices have to be heard. I hope I inspire up & coming females to do that."

Azalea had initially remained silent on the subject, but the day after Nicki's tweets, the younger rapper released a statement on her Instagram account;

"I have to say the general explosion of pettiness online in the last few days is hard to ignore and honestly ... lame. If I had won the BET award that would've been great but it wasn't my year and I don't mind -- so you shouldn't either.

"Generally speaking, I'm unbothered by anything that 'happened' at the BET awards, and just feel worn out by everyone trying to make me have wars with people all the time. Anyone who wishes me well is welcome in my life and those who don't can't get any more of my time. I hate to see everyone exhausting themselves on my behalf over things that I'm still not sure even exist and don't matter. Just let it go."

 Culled from RML

Kill Kendall Jones Page: NOT Taken Down By Facebook!

Facebook has allowed the "Kill Kendall Jones" community page to stay up, ruling upon review that it does not violate the social network's community standards.
This despite the fact that several of the now-infamous Kendall Jones hunting photos were taken down for violating the company's policies regarding animal abuse.

The 19-year-old cheerleader from Texas, an avid hunter, sparked plenty of outrage and admiration by posing with her trophy kills (see gallery below) last week.
Facebook nixed a series of photos that showed her posing with a variety of animals, including a leopard and a lion, that she had shot on safari in Zimbabwe.
The pictures were said to break a rule about “graphic images shared for sadistic effect or to celebrate or glorify violence,” as outlined by the company.
Many Facebook users want to Kill Kendall Jones, however, and her father is livid that such content is allowed to stay up while her pictures are not.
Cody Jones says he contacted Facebook, demanding they take down the "Kill Kendall Jones" page and its many posts and pics urging his daughter's murder.
He says Facebook shut him down, reviewing the page and determining that it didn't violate standards, despite it being a takeoff of Kendall's own postings.
In fact, some of the exact photos she shared are still up in doctored form.
The Kill Kendall page turns the tables on Jones, with the animals standing over a dead hunter (usually her). Somewhere, Joanna Krupa is smiling at this.
Facebook says, "We remove content and may escalate to law enforcement when we perceive a genuine risk of physical harm, or a direct threat to public safety."
Apparently, they feel a page called Kill Kendall Jones doesn't qualify.

Kojo Williams Explains How The Sports Minister Could Have Saved Nigeria From FIFA Ban

Fédération Internationale de Football Association (FIFA) yesterday banned Nigeria from participating in any FIFA sanctioned event, National team or club side due to government interference in the sport.

Former Chairman of the Nigeria Football Federation, NFF Kojo Williams has revealed that the recent ban was expected. Kojo was talking to reporters from Vanguard and talked of his disapointment with the new Sports Minister, Tammy Danagogo and his ministry for not handling the sack of NFF chairman and his board.

Kojo said: “I am disappointed that the Minister of Sports was not properly advised. FIFA has got structures and you cannot tamper with its structures and go free.”
He said that Minister Danagogo should have waited till August and then allow Maigari to be gone, He said: “If they wanted to sack the Maigari board, they should have waited for the August election. That is when they should have executed all their plans.

They are in a hurry. I don’t really know what they want. If they claim Maigari spent money, they should have asked him to explain how he spent the money. It is a shame,”

“I am shocked that we can still find ourselves in this kind of situation given our level of exposure. Some of us saw it coming. It is unfortunate” he said.

This is not the first time FIFA has banned Nigeria, Nigeria was banned in 1996 when then Military President Abacha interfered in the running of football in the country.

Wizkid Expresses Worry Over Inadequate Sleep

Star Boy boss, Wizkid, has expressed worry over his sleep pattern. The singer, who is always busy traveling to many countries for shows, disclosed that he has not been able to sleep well lately as he would have expected.

He expressed this in his recent tweet. According to him, he needs to go on a vacation in order for him to observe rest.

Wizkid said, “My sleep pattern is so messed up! Too many trips, different time zones! Don't why i'm up!”

It is learnt that on July 26, 201, the singer will be having a show in New York.

President Jonathan Arrives Ghana For ECOWAS Summit (Photos)

President Goodluck Jonathan has arrived Ghana for the 45^th Ordinary session of ECOWAS Summit of Heads of State and Government.

He arrived the country in company of the Minister of Finance, Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Minister of Industry, Trade and Investment, Olusegun Aganga and the Minister of Foreign Affairs, Aminu Wali. He is expected back to Nigeria on Friday after the two-day summit.

See Why A Native Doctor Kills and Buries a Man In a Shallow Grave

The Department of State Service, DSS, in Awka, yesterday, paraded a native doctor, Nze Sunday Asika (aka Aboy Ekwensu) and another suspect, Mr. Uchenna Ibeh for the murder of a vulcanizer, John Nwosu.

The accused native doctor, Asika and his culprit, Ibeh both confessed to killing the deceased who is from Ahiazu Mbaise in Imo State and then buried him in a shallow grave at Nkpologwu in Aguata Local Government Area of Anambra State.
However, both Asika and Ibeh did not agreed on who masterminded the killing.
The native doctor, Asika told Vanguard at DSS headquarters in Awka admitted to shooting the deceased but said Ibeh was the one that provided the gun which he used in killing the deceased and added he also carried the body and buried him in the grave.
He said further that Ibeh threatened to kill him if he allowed John to go because John had not been giving them money brought by his brother in South Africa.
Ibeh, on the other hand, however admitted that he was the person that took security operatives to the place where John was buried but said that he was only working for the native doctor as an electrician.
The Anambra State Director of DSS, Mr. Alex Okeiyi, told newsmen in Awka that the deceased approached the native doctor to help him prepare charm for his brother residing in South Africa for business growth.

Okeiyi said: “Nwosu’s brother had sent him to the native doctor for a charm to make his business in South Africa flourish, but the charm seemed not to be effective as his brother in South Africa was still having problems with his business.
“This forced his brother, John, to demand refund of the N500,000 he said he paid for the charm and this was his mission to the house of the native doctor. There, the native doctor and Ibeh lured him out of the native doctor’s house at about 8pm and murdered him.
“Asika shot him with a gun and they buried him in a sitting position in a shallow grave they prepared earlier.
“Ibeh confessed the native doctor had asked the deceased to stay back for a sacrifice on the fateful night, only for him to shoot him to death and he (Ibeh) buried the victim in an already dug pit and they headed to an unknown destination.
“Thereafter, the native doctor ordered the dismantling of the deceased’s motorcycle and used the parts to repair his faulty CG motorcycle with number plate, Enugu QP 782 UWH, and threw the dismantled motorcycle into a stream to obliterate evidence that would show that the deceased visited the native doctor.”

According to Okeiyi, a homicide team from the Anambra State Police Command led by a pathologist exhumed the remains of the deceased in the shallow grave at Nkpologwu in Aguata Local Government Area.
Meanwhile Okeiyi said the native doctor has been a terror in his Nkpologwu community, adding that available information indicates that he has been providing spiritual protection to high profile criminals in Anambra and other neighbouring states.
The wife of the deceased, Mrs. Ndidi Nwosu, a mother of three who said she was three months pregnant when her husband disappeared said things have been difficult for her and the kids since the murder of her husband as it has been members of her church, neighbours and relations that have assisting them.

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I’m Not Searching For Another Soulmate—Divorced Juliet Ibrahim Speaks

Few weeks ago, top Ghanaian actress, Juliet Ibrahim surprised many when she announced, via her publicist, that she is divorced. According to a press statement, she had dissolved her union a long time ago, but she kept it away from the media and her fans.

“Juliet Ibrahim has found it necessary to let her fans know today that she is no more married to Kwadwo Safo and the marriage ended a while back.

"With the interest of an innocent child on the table, we ask that you treat this difficult, but necessary decision to put her divorce out there for her fans to know with utmost respect.

"Juliet Ibrahim and ex-husband Kwadwo Safo have agreed to remain friends and stay in close contact for the benefit of the child, despite the fact that their marriage didn't work as planned," some parts of the statement released by Juliet’s publicist read.

However, when asked after the divorce if she would move into another relationship soon or if she is already in one, the actress was quick to say no man is giving her warmth at the moment. She stressed that though she is single, but she is not searching. “No, I am not into any relationship at the moment. I am single, but not searching,” she said.

Juliet is one of the pretty stars in the movie industry in Nigeria. She was rumoured to have been dating a fellow actor, IK Ogbonna, who some alleged to have ruined Juliet’s marriage, but the duo has debunked such rumour. (Nigeriafilms)