Between Men and Women Who Spends More In A Relationship?

Our sense of who we are is intricately entwined with our spending habit. 
 
When it comes to money, the female gender has been perceived and tagged the bigger spender.

While women have been subliminally taught that all they need to get through in life is acceptance which motivates them to always want to look good, which also in turn make them to be buyers and acquisitors of things that make them look good, men have also been taught in the same manner as women to be investors in things that hold value, things that can make them to be seen as men, a house, a car, a juicy retirement and so on...

According to Onyinye, a married mother of three, spending is an individual thing. She is of the Opinion that although some men are more extravagant in spending than some women, there is no rule to it; but when it comes to shopping impulsively, women are culprits.

Bola, a male banker, feels women spend more. He asserted that the only thing is just that most of the money women spend, it is the men that provide it. While women spend on personal effects, pets, fashion items; Men amazingly spend on groceries, dining out, phone calls, entertainment, travel, electronics and gas.

Nevertheless, let us do a more practical assessment. The cost of most of the fashion basics for men cannot be compared to that of women, especially if the man is a freak for genuine fashion items. A woman can pick 20 items in a mall in which the total cost of these 20items might not probably be up to half the cost of two pairs of male shoes another man will incure if he also shops in the same mall.

Although women mostly spend on things that have no asset value which gives them the "now" effect; Men generally spend on way much heavier assets that can be passed from generation to another.
Now, from the above, I will say both sexes spend. But men spend reasonably on valuable assets which make them to be the bigger spender!

Do you have a different opinion? Do share your thoughts with us.
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Ini Edo Re-Marries? She is excited as she wears a beautiful wedding gown again (Read)

Nollywood actress, Ini Edo is excited as she wears a beautiful wedding gown again. Recall that the pretty got married over five years ago to an America-based Nigerian businessman, Philip Ehiagwina.

The actress, who is presently on a movie set of Elvis Chuks, wore a wedding gown on the movie and expressed her excitement.

“I got married 5years ago and wore my wedding dress then. Most people get wear a wedding dress once in their lives. But as an actress, I have the chance to wear it again and again lol. So excited!” Ini Edo said in a shared photo she posted on the internet.

I Will Repeat My Dress – Yvonne Okoro Speaks Again

 

I’m tempted to think that Yvonne Okoro was really hurt when she was tagged as being broke because she repeated her yellow dress. After the report, the actress took to instagram to lambast the writer of that article and when all thought the issue was dead and gone, she is back again saying she will repeat it again.

 

No nonsense actress Yvonne Okoro has vented her spleen at those involved in the brouhaha over her recent ‘repeated dress’, saying, “I will repeat my dress.”Yvonne last week repeated a yellow Karen Millen modern tribal dress she wore in August 2012 at Showbiz Honours on a movie set in Nigeria.

Subsequent media reports claimed that the actress decided to repeat the dress because “she is broke.”

But the beautiful award-winning actress described the claims as “unintelligent and childish.”

She said she found it difficult to comprehend how “any learned person” would think that repeating a dress determined one’s bank account.

“I will repeat my dress any time I want to. I don’t owe anybody any explanation. Billionaires and millionaires all over the world can repeat dresses and its fine but we can’t. Who is arresting me for doing so? The inspector dress or the FBI of clothes?” Yvonne Okoro made a fun of her critics whenNEWS-ONE contacted her yesterday.

Earlier, she took to instargram react to the claims, advising young girls, “…if it looks that good let no one tell you, you can’t wear more than once. Bring back our girls to reality.”

She also denied claims about how she acquired her Mercedes Benz.

Culled from GhanaVibes....

Pastor Chris Oyakhilome Talks About Divorcing His wife

Pastor Chris Oyakhilome of the popular Love World Assembly, aka Christ Embassy Church has debunked the rumours which went viral that he had divorced his wife, Pastor Anita Oyakhilome.

Pastor Chris & Anita Oyakhilome
Speaking through one of his officials, Kenneth Achumasara, he described the report as the work of mischief makers.
Kenneth said, "I can tell you authoritatively that there is no issue between Pastor Chris and his wife, Anita," adding that the report was baseless and had no iota of truth.
According to him, Rev. Anita is handling the church's UK agency and she is still ministering till date.
Corroborating Kenneth's statement, another official who pleaded anonymity said, "If you go to the UK now you will see her along with the kids. She is still with him and there is no issue between them. I have been with him for 22 years and the Pastor Chris I know cannot even utter such words as reported. He will never address such a gathering. She will soon be in Nigeria for a programme and I will definitely invite you to have access to her."
The news of Pastor Chris divorcing his wife went viral on May 28 after a facebook page which was called 'Where is Rev. Anita Oyakhilome? was opened by some members of the church who were worried about the absence of Rev. Anita in the church who had not been seen with her husband Pastor Chris since November, 2013.
Not long after the news went viral, some officials of the church denied the report, saying it was false.
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Importance Of Sexual Moans (Must Read)

The art of sex is intensely interesting as every person acts and reacts in different ways. Studies have shown that moaning during sex has mutual benefits for both partners involved in the lovemaking act.

Making love to a motionless and and voiceless mate is like having it with a log of wood or a dead body. No doubt, feedback is important. Otherwise, how can you determine what works for your partner and what does not?
Here are some of the great importance of moaning during sex:

Assurance of Pleasure

You might be the "soft-moans" type, or the "the-scream-aloud" type and amazingly, and even the facial expressionist but all in all, when any of these sexual communication methods is used, your partner, one way or the other knows you enjoy he or she is doing you right at that moment.

Oiling the Ego of your man
No man wants to be seen as a failure in the bedroom department. Ladies, each time you moan or communicate sexually to him, you remove some residual insecurities of low self esteem and many more from your man. He goes about the day's activities fulfilled!

Great and enhanced sexual lifestyle

Here, the logic is, if you moan or communicate to your partner in your own sexual way, your partner will from time to time where he/she needs to touch and what he/she needs to do to take you to the desired cloud nine. This. overtime, makes the both of you understand each other's exact needs and will birth a fulfilled sex life.

You will get much more

Like the Oliver Twist, when your partner gets "on-the-spot-feedbacks", he/she tends to want to do more so as to make you get more pleasure. Trust your instincts...he/she would just do more!

Although not all feedbacks or sex communications need to be vocal, the most important thing is to be genuine and also to know the exact signal your partner uses in getting across to you to avoid frustrations. So, if it is not working, tell your partner how to make it work because you deserve a great sex life! It is important.
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CONGRATULATIONS! Kelly Rowland is pregnant with her first child

Kelly Rowland is pregnant with her first child. And the singer picked a creative way to announce the happy news on Tuesday. Kelly shared a photo of a pair of Air Jordans with a baby version next to them on her Instagram page.

‘I’ll be stuntin like my daddy…..’ the  Destiny’s Child  star wrote alongside the sweet snapshot.
Kelly married Tim Witherspoon last month in Costa Rica  , and her former bandmate Beyonce Knowles was in attendance with her sister Solange.

 

The 33-year-old began dating Tim, her manager, in 2011, and they announced their engagement in December of last year.

‘I’ll be stuntin like my daddy’: Kelly posted this photo on Instagram to announce the happy news

 

Expanding their family: Kelly and her manager Tim, who she began dating in 2011, got married last month. They are seen here in March

On Monday night Kelly covered up any signs of a baby bump while attending the Think Like A Man Too Hollywood premiere with Michelle Williams.

The star sported a billowing white top along with a black blazer, matching skinny jeans and strappy sandals with padlocks on them.

No doubt her best friend Beyonce will be excited for a future playmate for her two-year-old daughter with Jay Z, Blue Ivy.

 What else can we say but congratulate Kelly and her husband, and wish her a safe pregnancy and easy delivery.

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A Picture Of Lagos Island In 1960

This is what Lagos Island used to look like in case you want to know.

My Wish At 34 Is To Get Married- D’banj

D’banj while celebrating his birthday on Monday at Four Points Hotel by Sheraton in Lekki, told journalists that his wish at 34 is to get married and told them he would like to be addressed as Kiniun Funfun (White lion), henceforth. He says he is in the habit of changing his name when he is about to begin a new project, and the best name that fits his status now is ‘’Kiniun Funfun’’

When asked if he considers the impression this might create in the minds of his fans, D’banj said;

“Yes, I considered all this before announcing it to the public today.  As I said, Kiniun funfun is a rare breed. Look at me, how many people are like me in this world? There is none. It is FG, which means ‘Favour of God’ and not Federal Government.”

We wish him well in his life endeavors.... 

D’Banj Signs Tonto On His Music Label- DB Record

After several months of speculations that Tonto Dikeh will join DB Records, a music label owned by D’Banj, we can now confirm that it is now a reality.

Yesterday, both Tonto and D’Banj turned a year older and the day was marked separately by the two acts. And as a birthday gift to the controversial actress, the self-acclaimed Eja Nla took to his Instagram page today, Tuesday, June 10, to announce the signing of Tonto as an music artiste under his label.

D’Banj also called Tonto his daughter and welcomed her into the new family.

“To my birthday mate and the Duchess of DB Records, welcome to the LEE TEMPLE. Can’t wait for the world to see what we’ve been up to. I’m proud of u my daughter,” D’Banj wrote on Tuesday.
 

Look at this inappropiate Instagram Madonna just posted of her 13-year-old son

Los Angeles – Madonna’s instagram   is a bizarre place.  From calling her Malawian  born son a racial slur to posting pictures of her doing crazy workouts – we know that it can get messy.

Recently she posted a picture of her 13-year-old son (with ex-husband Guy Ritchie) Rocco Ritchie with bottles of alcohol. It was the kind-of-thing that made us shake our heads.

Like “why would you do that with your tween age kid Madge?” The pop icon obviously doesn’t care what anyone thinks though because she just posted another inappropriate picture of her 13-year-old shirtless and flexing.