1.Develop A Skill And Perfect It
The most successful
people everywhere in the world look back to decisions they made in their
twenties as those that put their lives on the path to success. If you
want to be a caterer, stop waiting for money to go for classes.
Volunteer to work weekends for free at a catering company around you. If
you want to learn web design, and you’re broke, go to w3 schools online
or meet a friend who is a web designer. If you want to be a writer,
start a blog. Read what you need to read now and apply the knowledge.
The time you’re wasting, thinking about how to start will haunt you in
future.
2.Don’t Wait For Money To Pursue Your Dream
If
you want to do business, you can volunteer to work on weekends at the
type of business you want to do. If you want a job in a particular
industry and you can’t easily get it, apply for a 6-12 month internship
and start work. It will open opportunities for you later and is a lot
better than sitting at home. Waiting makes you mentally weak and drains
all energy and hope from you.
3.Start Saving And Investing Your Money Now
The
best years to accumulate compound interest on any investment are in
your twenties. Waiting till you get a job will make things much harder
in future. Save what you can, no matter how little. Even if it is small,
you would have developed a valuable habit.
4.Start Before You’re Ready
Remember
in your twenties, you have few responsibilities besides yourself. Many
people in their twenties are unmarried and without kids. So, go ahead.
Take a risk. Feel free to pursue your dreams earnestly. If you make a
mistake and go totally broke. No one will die because of it. At worst
you’ll move back in with your parents, think about your life for a week
and get back into life without a major disaster. It is better to learn
through experience than just sitting in fear of what you’re not sure
exists.
5.Learn What To Expect In The Future From Older, More Experienced People
Older
people are around you for a reason. Their knowledge is valuable. They
can save you years of pain if you learn from them. Ask them questions.
Take advantage of their experience to avoid the mistakes they made and
move your life forward with wisdom. Get into the habit of asking people
older and more experienced than you questions like, “What do you wish
you had known when you were my age?” or “What are the things you wish
you started doing when you were my age?” You will be surprised at how
helpful this will be over the course of your life.
6.Develop Valuable Relationships
Choose
the friends you want to keep in your life. Cut the friends that suck
the life out of your emotions and your resources, but never add any
value to your life. Create professional relationships too. If you’re in a
job, find superiors in your company who can be mentors. If you’re in a
business, find conferences and associations in your business where you
can meet mentors. Remember that the greatest influences on your future
success are the relationships you have.
7.Don’t Forget To Enjoy The Process
The
road to achieving your goals requires focus—a lot of focus. And this
focus can make you lose sight of the beautiful things in life. I
attended a seminar in April 2013 where Maneesh Garg, CEO of Nagode
industries spoke about the lessons he learnt through his life. There was
a time period allowed for asking questions. I asked him, “Sir, if you
could do it over again, what would you wish you had known before
starting?” His answer was disarming. He said, “I would take time to
enjoy the process.” This is coming from a man whose company did N24bn
turnover in 2011. Take time to enjoy the path to success. Although the
top is good, it can also be lonely. So, make friends. Go out. Have fun
with your loved ones. Create memories you want to remember in future.
Let there be variety in your life.
8.Show Love To Your Family
A
client who lost her dad last year told me in a state of mourning,
“Don’t take your parents for granted. Before you know it, they are
gone.” Family is too important to take lightly. Say the important things
you want to say, which you know they need to hear. If you don’t, you
will regret it. If there are disputes in your family, try everything
within your power to reconcile. Forgive them. Ask to be forgiven. Call a
third party if necessary. Life is too short to keep grudges with the
people we should love the most. When they are gone, you will wish you
had the wisdom to reconcile.
9.Have A Good Relationship With God
When
you’re in your twenties, many times there is a certain feeling of
uncertainty. You keep wondering how your life will turn out, whether
you’ll find a good life partner, whether you’ll get a good job, whether
your business will be successful and so on. This can be stressful. You
need a place of certainty. A place where you can be certain of a love
that is real and unconditional. And that is God. Your relationship with
God gives you a balanced perspective on life and peace in your heart.
This is more valuable than any success you will ever get.
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Goodluck...
fter a disastrous start to their World Cup
campaign, Portugal have been dealt another blow after Christiano
Ronaldo was pictured limping out of training with his knee heavily
strapped. There had been serious doubts over the Real
Madrid superstar’s fitness ahead of the tournament, after a thigh
problem and tendonitis in his knee forced him to miss training and two
warm-up matches.
Television presenter, Denrele Edun, is actually carving a niche for
himself as he is virtually seen everywhere on red carpet events to
hosting of shows.
